Forgiveness is not a choice but it’s a must. What do I mean? forgiveness is powerful and becomes a tool that liberates you from bitterness – living in unforgiveness cages you to a life of acrimoniousness and resentment.
Unforgiveness is like cutting your skin – in a call for seeking equality and justice, you end up inflicting greater hurt on yourself when you live in unforgiveness, your relationships and your well-being.
sometimes we press on the offence of people who hurt, betray or malign you, that you feel “it’s my right” to keep this offence and live with it and “over my dead body” that I will forgive and reconcile with my offender.
Well, it’s your right to hold unto this offence – you need to come to the understanding that the offence you are holding is striping you of your good health, freedom and peace of mind.
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Gradually, it affects your mental health and causes you to rage unnecessarily – you become bitter and maybe start having wrinkles just because you decide not to forgive and chose offence over freedom.
Also, bear in mind that forgiveness is powerful and it’s a choice you need to make. I know you might say “you don’t know what this fellow has done to me” yes, I don’t know but it’s high time to let go, nothing keeps you in the past like unforgiveness, in my other opinion and experience it causes retardation.
Among other prerequisites of living long, forgiveness is one of them. What pain or hurt are you holding onto? Stop holding onto that offence, let it go! I know the offender doesn’t deserve it, but it’s time to let go!
It’s pathetic that your offender took you for a fool, but there is nothing you do to change what is done – I feel your pain. Do you know your offender might be living the best of his/her life and here you are grieving for what is not.
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Over time I’ve come to realise the greatest weapon to use after someone deliberately hurt you is to be happy – your greatest revenge is to move on, the universe sees your energy and rewards you. This is the moment the clock is slower, yet use it to your advantage. Forgiveness is power use it to your advantage.
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